It’s easy, especially as women, to look in the mirror and see the flaws and imperfections, instead of the beauty and uniqueness that each of us possess. It’s easy to compare ourselves to others who are totally opposite, but for what reason? Each of us are different and that is where our beauty lies. Whether you are obsessed with your height, weight, or complexion, the truth is that there are plenty of fish in the sea that like it all. So own your bait!
Confidence should always be your foundation, and your finishing polish. When you own your qualities and embrace them, no one else can be a better you. Walk with your shoulders back, your head high, and strut your stuff! If you’re tall, then wear clothes and shoes that show off your long limbs. Dare to be bold. And if you’re on the shorter side of the median, then don’t be afraid to play around with the highest of heels or with cute flats. Take some risk with your wardrobe, and wear the things that show your personality. When you look good, you feel good. Don’t be afraid of trying something new.
No matter what weight class you have diagnosed yourself into, or which weight class you actually belong to, one thing is certain. We all love to wear black. Don’t be afraid to experiment with color, even if it’s just a small pop at a time. A colored lip with a neutral outfit, or a sexy bold scarf with your favorite black dress or suit, could make all the difference. Loud colors won’t subject you to ridicule, or make you look like a clown. Find what works for you, and you’ll look fabulous! If you prefer to keep it simple, then be yourself. The sexiest part of your outfit does not have to be the most visual. Shear, lace, spandex, push-up bras…they can make you feel sexy. And if what you feel is what you exude, then you should feel great.
We are women. We’re amazing. And just think, without us, our significant other may be stuck eating cereal and sandwiches for the rest of their lives. So smile. Don’t think of yourself as vain, it’s ok to pat yourself on the back and own it. After all, you are the bait. So you might as well be the best bait possible. Love your skin from within!